rén jiā qiān lǘ nǐ bá jué
see 別人牽驢你拔橛子|别人牵驴你拔橛子[bie2 ren5 qian1 lu:2 ni3 ba2 jue2 zi5]
人
rén
person; people
家
jiā
home
牵
qiān
to lead along
驴
lǘ
donkey
你
nǐ
you (Note: In Taiwan, 妳 is used to address females, but in mainland China, it is not commonly used. Instead, 你 is used to address both males and females.)
拔
bá
to pull up
橛
jué
a peg