顾左右而言他

gù zuǒ yòu ér yán tā

(idiom) to digress from the topic of discussion

to look after; to take into consideration; to attend to

zuǒ

left

yòu

(bound form) right; right-hand side

ér

and

yán

words

(third-person singular) (since the early 20th century, usu. male) he; him; his